Handjob vs Blowjob: Which One Often Wins?

by Dave Matters, Last Updated on: February 10, 2022
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when it comes to men receiving a handjob or blowjob, most men would argue that blowjobs are better because they can give themselves a handjob

This sounds logical but, is it really the case most time?

I personally prefer a blowjob to a handjob. Other people will no doubt have their own preferences. But there are so many reasons why handjobs might actually be better and that’s what we are going to look at here

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Let’s Dive in!!!

Tell me the difference between hand jobs and blowjobs?

A blowjob is oral sex – when the mouth sucks on the penis.

A handjob is when one partner ‘jerks off’ a guy by stroking or fondling his penis.

The partners can be the same-sex or opposite sex. The terms are the same.

A blow job is the slang term for Male received Oral sex. So where the penis has contact with a mouth.

A hand job doesn’t have contact with a mouth, it’s basically someone else masturbating you/the Male.

The most important thing to note is that: A handjob can be done to yourself and to others, but blowjob you cannot do to yourself, you can only give others

To summarize

  • Hand job = dick in hand
  • Blow job = dick in mouth

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Diniel Patel Says

There isn’t the one single rule. Every man is different. Even twins. Just the way each female is different.

I’ve generally not enjoyed either BJ or handjobs from a female I’m having a one-night stand or casual hook up with. Same goes for a couple of ex-girlfriends.

I’ve had a couple one nightstands who’ve given me some of the best sensations during a BJ and a couple ex-girlfriends who figured out what works for me with them as they gave me blowjobs over the course of our relationship.

If done right, I can definitely guarantee and quick and strong erection with a handjob (since that’s the one method I can train myself with my own body parts….not flexible enough to give myself a BJ) but then almost every female I’ve been with so far, thinks pumping my penis as fast as possible is the one true method to give me an erection or orgasm. *thanks but no thanks pornography*

Danny S Says

Depends on the guy, his partner, and the day. There is no absolute when it comes to sex and guys or girls. Different people, different tastes.

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Jeremy Glenesk Says

I generally prefer blowjobs over handjobs, but both are highly enjoyable, so I’m never going to complain either way.

Joseph Anthony Says

Well this guy hands down prefers blowjobs.

I don’t know what it is whether it is the intimacy, the moisture or the sense of control you feel whilst receiving one the simple fact is that a blow job feels much, much better then a hand job.

Paul Caroccio Says

I love blowjobs- They are my favorite pleasure from pretty girls, young women, and women. Blowjobs are intimate and deep throat is very intimate. There is nothing like a girl, young woman, or woman giving your penis a great sucking.

Handjobs are a close second for me. Of course, I love to reciprocate. After a blowjob or deep throat, I enjoy kissing the girl, young woman, or woman (on the mouth and lips).

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Well this may differ from person to person and the way it is been done, but a combination of both would be deadly,

I mean start off with a sensual handjob and then lick it over and then an intense blowjob and then go deeper and get a bit raunchy long with a bit of strokes here and there while giving a bj.

What others are saying:

Anonymous says

A blowjob indeed !! Which thing will give more pleasure to you, sucking your boobs or just pressing them? You got the point.

Jugsy says

It’s always the Blow job which makes man tooo happy…and make sure not to go hurry on that…slower the better…If you could pull down the foreskin and play on his D head..I am sure he gonna be ga ga ga over you all the time…Enjoy and cheers

Ankit Muchhala says

Of course a blow job, hand job can be given by himself too but a blow job cant be given to one’s self.

Also, how would a person like a rasgulla to just enjoy squeezing it or rather eating it? Decide or rather think.

Blow job, a man enjoys more because another reason to it is that the effect of having intercourse is similar or rather more enhancing pleasure in the mouth then in vagina. The pleasure nerves get more activated.

Ishan Shrivastava says

A blowjob is almost always a maximum pleasure (many times even more than penetrative sex).

A handjob is mostly not required because it is almost like masturbating but just using any other person’s hand.

Rakesh Punekar says

Depends on what a person likes. I have seen men loving Hand job also equally well.

This also depends on the skill of the one who is giving the job. An excellent hand job is better than a poor blowjob.

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Pallavi M says

It actually depends on how well u give. My preference is a Hand job because i don’t have to fill my mouth ( i hate semen in my mouth ) The choice is your preference anyway. All it takes is good practice and patience

Siegfried Thyssen says

Male Extra

Getting a blowjob is far more enjoyable to me than a handjob. A first-timer is great, she attacks it exuberantly! But sometimes when it’s their first time, they approach that second time more gingerly or reluctantly, perhaps deciding they didn’t care for it that much. Then it kind of levels off between the first and second time, as she learned her chops.

That occurred a couple of times, understandable. They never told me it was their first, but so guessed at it because of that. Once an exchange college student from Japan, no really, was shocked and asked what it was that just shot out! So I am definitely sure THAT was her first time.

She was really wary of opening her mouth down there after that! Talk about frustrating. But she had really soft skin and enormous breasts, so we found other ways. I would say a titty-f()k with a big breasted woman with nice soft skin got the hand AND blow job beat.

 

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Raikar Rao says

Blowjob any day. But handjob also feels good sometimes. Most of the times, my wife gives me blowjob. but some days, when I am completely exhausted – I relax on a recliner and ask my wife to jerk me off. The feeling of me just lying there, dick real hard and she stroking it slowly while we have casual chat is amazing.

5 Reasons why Handjobs may be better than blowjobs

1. You Can Deploy Erotic Talk To One Another During Handjobs

2. Handjobs offer more precision than blowjobs

3. She Gets To Watch You Fully Certified

4. You can make out with her the whole time

5. Your hands do more than your mouths

Why Handwork Makes Him Feel Special?

Handjobs offer a quick way to get a release when you need it the most

You will feel so warm and happy and she see it in your eyes when you cum

Giving A Hand Job

It helps if you like the person and you get him to talk about what he likes and how he likes to be touched. I can pass on a couple of hints, but nothing beats experience with your partner.

Use lubricant or cooking oil or hand cream so that your hand slides over the cock.

Stroke the tummy, below the navel, to excite the cock before you take hold of it.

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Be gentle.

Kiss a lot.

Be scrupulously clean. Make sure your lover is clean, too.

Keep your hands cold with iced water.

Keep the rhythm – in general start slowly and speed up. Observe any noises / movements he makes.

Rest often. Take both hands off the ccck and let the male suffer blue baalls a little. If he tries to relieve the blue baalls by masturbating, slap his hands away, hard. If you have a cane, use it on the hands to prevent further masturbation.

Use a butt plug or a finger to open the aass hole. By inserting two fingers you can stimulate the prostate directly, which is a powerful and unfamiliar thrill to most men.

By applying a very cold cloth with ice, you can make your lover piiss uncontrollably.

Massage one part of the ccck at a time: the tip, the base, the centre of the shaft, the upper side, the under side.

Use the other hand to stimulate the balls. Cup the baalls in the hand and press gently with the long finger on the nerve cross which is at the back of the scrotum, near the butt hole.

Talk naughtily about his fantasy girl and what she would do to him.

When you’re out walking together, wear a micro-skirt, stockings and heels. Give your lover hand jobs on the bare in public, where people can see. Embarrass him.

When the male pumps his load, hold the ccck steadily and don’t try to massage it. Just let him pump.

After your lover has pumped his load, hold the cock and balls and wait for the hardness to return, then give another hand job. Most men will pump six to ten loads in two hours.

If your lover dozes off, wait a minute, then hold the balls and massage the cock to wake him. A ball squeeze is more painful and more effective.

All males orgasm. All of them. Just keep trying if he doesn’t pump his load straight away. The longer it takes, the more powerful the eventual orgasm will be.

Other tips for giving a handjob

Rub Only The Tip Of His Penis

Form “Rings” With Your Thumb And Forefinger

Have Him Thrust With His Pelvis

Hold His Scrotum Right Before He Is About To Orgasm

Bring In Props

Blindfold him

Use both hands

Base Clutch Handjob

Masturbate – With His Penis

Other Resources to check out

Double Whammy Handwork

Shuttle Cock Handjob – How to do a shuttle cock handjob

Rub Only The Tip Of His Penis

The Anvil Stroke Handjob

 

 

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